10 Benefits of Remaining a Virgin till Marriage by Nancy Hanna

31 01 2016

wedding romance

With so many sex movies and sexual images all around, girls are under pressure from their boyfriends to have sex. They can no longer wait till marriage. Are you pressed to have sex before you marry?  Here are 10 benefits of waiting till you marry to have sex.

  1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
  2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.
  3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
  4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
  5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.
  6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
  7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
  8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
  1. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care.
  2. If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.




26 responses

13 07 2018

I’m so bless to read this

21 06 2018
Blessing Ajayi

very nice thanks for the advise

14 05 2018
favour eteng

thanks 4 ur ncouragement toward the youth am grateful.

6 03 2018

nice one,seriously helpful for me cause I was about losing mine when I read this now am determined to stay a virgin till marriage,it’s some helpful article

6 03 2018

Good decision, Francis, one you will never regret. Glad to hear from you…Cheers

2 03 2018

Yah l owe 100% support to this ….its quite encouraging …thnk yu fr sharing these helping facts to us

2 03 2018

You are welcome, Lillian. Happy you found it helpful. God bless

31 01 2018
Nashi N.A

Wow, I love this,thanks for the advise.


31 01 2018

You are welcome, Nashi N. A. Thanks for writing in

3 01 2018
Reuben Kimanthi

I am 30 years old…I have kept my virginity till marriage….. I married on 22/12/2017…..


3 01 2018

Congratulations Reuben Kimanthi, you have set a good example for others. You have shown that it’s possible to keep pure and keep your body clean for your spouse. May God bless you and your spouse with a happiness beyond compare as your love together begins forever

12 12 2017

I am facing this sex challenges
due to the place i live
we are getting seduced by these girls of nowadays
but i stay Strong and i thank God I’m Overcoming them


13 12 2017

Hi, Akinyemi, thanks for writing in. No doubt you have read scripture passage where Eve seduced Adam. Women have been seducing men right from the beginning. Thus it’s not an excuse. You have to resist. If not you should not blame Adam for falling to Eve and bringing unspeakable suffering on earth. Experienced people resist temptation by guarding their eyes. What you can control is what you look at. Even ig a girl choses to gp naked (shameless) you still have the power not to look at her if you choose. So guard your eyes. See but don’t look. A man can see an indecently clad woman pass and leave it there. Another man can see the same woman, but looks i.e taling the details of her nakedness. Mire important, do not stay alone with a girl in a place where things can happen. You are more likely to fall into temptation when you are alone with a girl where no one can see. Finally, don’t exchange jokes or anything sexual in nature.

5 06 2018

Delila seduced Samson & in the end the vry eyes he used to see her were gorged out. Stay strong

16 10 2017
achu simon

The information was very helpful.

2 10 2017

It is a good thing

29 09 2017

I will like to move along with you while getting all your posts.

26 09 2017
El bajam David

I am a Husband, then a Father and I have found this piece superb. I will teach my three female children. God bless you.

26 09 2017

Thanks for writing in, El Bajam David, you are a wise man.

29 07 2017

This is good. I will teach my kids

24 07 2017

It’s wise to stay clean until marriage, good people keep God’s law alive

6 06 2017
godfrey musa

devil have blanded the eyes of our youth to day not to see the lmplitation of premarital sex

6 02 2017
James M

Im a virgin @ 27!I feel like an angel.

18 01 2017

am 20,my prayer is to remain a virgin till marriage.
I encourage fellow girls to wait for it is possible.

2 09 2016

Absolutely! Great post. My husband and I saved ourselves for marriage, and it was the best decision.

3 09 2016

Hi, À LA MODEST, thanks for writing in. Yes, those who keep themselves clean and pure are often the happiest because they come to marriage with fewer regrets. Keep it up. You are a good example to many

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